Mt 5:38-48
Preached at Bedok Church of Christ, Singapore
19 Feb 2017
Violence and conflicts have always been part of human existence
The judiciary system has been built to address this - to throw perpetrators into prison or even execute them. But year after year we see no sign of them abating
Perhaps Jesus has a better way. It's been much talked about but little practiced.
Jesus said you have heard that it was said
"An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth." This can be found in the book of Exodus 21:24 and Leviticus 24:19-21
When somebody hurt you and did something wrong to you you are allowed to get even through the machinery of the law court. It requires that wrong be punished - injury for injury , pounds for pounds , inch for inch.
There's a technical word for it - lex talionis. It was intended to curb excessive retaliation. To keep violence from escalating. It's based on the principle of retributive justice. Can also be found in the ancient law of Hammurabi. God saw it fit to use it to teach his people to curb the growth of violence that's prevalent in ancient societies as is our own.
If I hit you on your shoulder , you can hit me back on the shoulder. Fair and square. Tit for tat. But u are not allowed to knock my head off. You get the point. The law serves a good purpose. It puts a cap on violence. The law punishes the offender while preventing the counter strikes from escalating.
Research shows that aggression is part of the human DNA perhaps more in man than woman. Testosterone has been blamed but no one knows for sure.
Jab for jab - revenge does not work because we can't even the score ; the second jab is always more painful than the first. The third greater than the second and so forth. So it will lead only to an vicious circle of revenge and an escalating scale of violence and destruction. " An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind "
But Jesus says , " do not return evil with evil. " and he gives a few scenarios for this.
If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other cheek
If someone forces you to run one mile run for him two miles
If someone asks from you for your inner garment give him your jacket as well
Give to the one who asks of you and from the one who wants to borrow from you do not turn away
'Jesus, are you crazy? ' Will this really work in the real world ? This is really radical !
When Jesus preaches this there has to be a twinkle in his eyes
You have got to see that Jesus is a master teacher and he uses hyperbole ( a rhetorical statement that exaggerates for effect ) to grab our attention. Quite a few scholars have noted the humor in his sermons. Jesus can be humorous too even with a serious subject as handling a violent person.
So if you don't approach the subject with an eye for the humor in what Jesus is saying you are likely to miss the point
You see when someone slaps you on the right cheek he has to use his back hand to do it. It is more of an insult than an injury. So when you turn to him the other cheek you are saying to him "that's an insult. If you want to slap me, do it the right way and treat me as your equal ! " instead of offering yourself as a doormat you stand up to an evil person without violence.
When someone, likely a Roman soldier, forces you to carry his equipment for a mile and just when he is expecting you to throw it down with a grunt and very likely a few swear words to boot when you are done you say to him "oh I've got some more energy left I will carry it for another mile for you!" You leave him wondering "what's going on?" You are supposed to get mad ! With that surprising act of generosity, you turn a hostile relationship to one of peace.
When someone sues you for your tunic you give him your jacket as well. You surrender your last piece of property (the outer cloak is protected by the Jewish law ; it's his inalienable property) In doing so, you magnify the atrocity of what he's doing to you ! You put him to shame. It's a shame that anyone should sue anyone for his undergarment (exploitation of the poor; a poor person in those days own only one or two tunics). By going all the way and taking off your last piece of clothing you jolt him into realizing what he's doing! That that's no way to treat your fellow men.
Instead of stooping to his level, you take the high road.
Your reaction will disarm him. It will lay bare/ expose the folly of his action and lead him to repentance.
David had been running away from Saul who was jealous of his success and sought to kill him. On one occasions David and his men had the opportunity to kill Saul but he let him go. Finally Saul was overwhelmed by his mercy.
Saul said to David " you are a more righteous man than I am ! You have rewarded me with good though I had rewarded you with evil. The Lord has delivered me into your hand and yet you have not killed me. For if a man finds his enemy will he let him get away safely? Therefore the Lord will reward you for what you have done to me today " Ever since then Saul left him alone.
1 Samuel 24:16-19
Jesus is not introducing us a new law or issuing a blanket solution for handling someone who attacks you.
He's showing us a creative, non retaliatory counter cultural way of disarming your opponent by using a kind of "holy mischief".
Be creative. Rather than hitting back with violence, try a bit of creative humor. Surprise your opponent with extreme generosity. This may throw him off guard and cause him to wake up from his usual brutish way of doing things.
This is a bit like Forrest Gump. The man who spouts aphorisms like " my mama says life is like a box of chocolates. You'd never know what you're going to get ". Throughout the show he was the butt of everybody's joke. He didn't realize it of course. But because of his extraordinary kind heartedness, unflinching loyalty and crazy generosity he disarms everybody and steals every heart away !
To unmask the foolishness of the world's tit for tat , cynical and penny pinching philosophy that pushes the world to the brink of destruction, God calls us to be fools for his sake
There's a place for law and logic
That's what lex talionis is about
It's a common sense principle of righting a wrong - tit for tat , fair and square
- the law of retribution
Built into the very fabric of our society
It brings order and justice to society
Jesus is not repudiating the law
Or denying your God given rights
He's calling us to go beyond that calculating kind of love that operates purely on logic and common sense ..
He's calling us to a love that transcends law and logic
Yes you have your rights !
Your rights to life to dignity to property and to freedom
But if you are going to be my disciples, I am calling you to go beyond defending your rights and giving people what they deserve
I am calling you to love with a reckless abandon
To voluntarily give up your rights for the best interest of the other person
Yes, Love your enemy.
I am calling you to love people who dun deserve it
People outside your own tribe
People you don't necessarily like
People who may not return you your favors
In fact people who don't see eye to eye with you
who are an irritant to you
Yes love your enemies not just those who love you and greet you and treat you well but those who treat you badly
because I love them too
I love people on all sides of the conflicts on all sides of the divide
I am calling you to give, to love and serve without expecting anything in return
That's what makes you salty
That's what makes you different
That's what makes you shine like stars in a dark sky
For if you love only those who love you
Greet only those who greet you
then you are no different from everybody else
You are to be salt of the earth and the light of the world
You go beyond common sense love
You go beyond the " I scratch your back, you scratch my back " human benevolence
Jesus is calling us to display the kind of love that can only come from God
He's calling us to love as God does to reveal the heart of God
You see this in the everyday phenomenon
For God causes the sun to shine on the good and the wicked , he causes the rain to fall on the righteous and the unrighteous
But you see it come to a focus in the life and death of Jesus
He gave up his throne of glory, surrendered his royal garment and traversed the infinite distance to reach out to us. But what did we do to him? We rejected him humiliated him spat on him put a thorny crown on him and nailed him to the cross
He has every right to summon the angels and destroyed his enemies yet .. yet he chose the way of the cross on which he died to set men free
In Jesus we see the heart of God
God who will do whatever it takes to set us free
So as we follow Jesus we are called to do the same
When you love your enemies, you reflect the very character of your Heavenly Father
Be perfect as your Heavenly Father is perfect
You reflect that family likeness
Like Father like Son
When we receive the Holy Spirit, God changes our DNA
- he gives us a new heart filled with the love of God through the Holy Spirit
Now we need to get down to the practical part
How do I do that ?
Who's my enemy ?
Someone who treats you badly , who makes life difficult for you
Perhaps
A neighbor who is obnoxious
A colleague who throws his weight around or a boss who is so full of himself
Even a loved one who objects to you embracing Christ
A professor in school who ridicules your faith
Pray for him , bless him
Consider one good thing you can do for him this week
1. Pray ( to be honest when I begin to pray for my enemies I sometimes do so by praying one of those imprecatory psalms e.g. Psalm 3:7 " deliver me Lord from my enemies ! Strike their jaw and shatter their teeth !' In prayer we bring our raw honest emotions to God. And hostile emotions may be all we can manage at first but at least it's honest! Forgiving our enemies takes time. It does not mean that what they did to us didn't matter. It's not glossing over the wrong. It's precisely because what they did to us was hurtful that we need to forgive. We need to name the evil and call it to curse. But as we pray , over time we begin to let go of the hurt. We come to see our enemies with new eyes. We begin to see them as people not very different from us- broken and flawed human beings in need of grace. And we slowly come to find it in our hearts to bless them and wish them well ... )
2. Bless them that curse you - it's hard to hold on to your grudges when you keep praying for your enemies
3. Do good to them that persecute you - prayer leads to action. Love goes beyond feelings and words. It leads to action.
Abraham Lincoln an ex president of the United States was perceived as being too soft on his political opponents so
Someone asked him,
'Other politicians seek to destroy their enemies, mr president why aren't you doing that?'
' Oh yes I do , I destroy them by loving them into becoming my friends '
Instead of returning evil for evil Lincoln puts Jesus words into action by overcoming evil with good
As the apostle Paul says in Romans 12
Do good to your enemy
Feed him when he's hungry give him a drink when he's thirsty and in so doing
" You heap coals of fire on his head "
Don't always expect a happy ending
The love that we show towards our enemies can potentially lead them to repentance but not always
They may totally ignore you and turn a blind eye to what you do
For some you give him an inch he wants a yard
If you are a victim of abuse or bullying you don't simply let people trample all over you
The command is not asking Christians to be doormat for people to wipe their feet
Indeed the command to love your neighbor is to be balanced by the command to love yourself
If we are in those situations of abuse please get out of it and seek protection
And the perpetrator should be taken to task and duly corrected
What the command does is that it frees us from the hatred in our heart and the urge to get even
Behold I send you as sheep among the wolves
Be innocent as doves and be wise as serpents
So practice discernment in our non retaliatory enemy loving ways
Ultimately the reason why we love our enemies is because Jesus did it for us
He came to his own people but his own people did not receive him
He was rejected by them
Insulted spat upon slapped flogged stripped naked and
Nailed to the cross
Yet like a lamb unto the slaughter he opened not his mouth
With his dying breath he prayed
"Father, forgive them for they know not what they do "
" And God commends his love toward us in that while we are sinners, while we were yet his enemies , Christ died for us " Romans 5:8
When you open the newspaper everyday you see wars, rumors of war and acts of terrorism.
The world seems to get darker everyday. But it's against the backdrop of the world's darkness that the light of Christ shines the brightest
In a world of increasing violence and conflicts, let's try the way of Jesus
Conclusion:
To pay good with evil is evil
To pay good with good is human
To pay evil with good that's divine
May the Spirit of Christ grant us the freedom to love as God loves